Thursday, September 22, 2011
A Moment in Time - Manly card
I think this card would be great to give to some of the male species. I still think it is hard to make cards for men because it is so much easier to make beautiful cards for the female species. Let's face it, flowers, bling, lacy and gorgeous colors are a lot more fun to work with and have a lot more that can be done with them. Men are just difficult to make cards for, at least for me *okie thinks...and their socks stink too*.
Supplies Used:
~ Cricut Expression
~ Cricut Cartridges - George, Art Philosophy, Home Decor
~ Tim Holtz Lost and Found paper stack
~ Coredinations Tim Holtz Kraft-Core Nostalgia Collection
~ Mica Cardstock
~ Cuttlebug
~ Tim Holtz Brick embossing folder
~ Kelly Pannaci stamps
~ Memento Ink
~ Brads
~ Cat Eye Ink
Since I wanted this to be a card for the male species I tried to think of a decent sentiment for the inside of the card. I used MS word to print off the sentiment and it is just something I came up with on my own. It's not great but it gets the point across.
Look at the brick pattern on the red cardstock, you can see the kraft core a lot better in this picture and I love the way it turned out. For those who don't know I will state how I do this. I put my paper in the embossing folder, run it through the Cuttlebug and then leave the paper on the folder while I sand it. This keeps me from pushing down the embossed area while sanding.
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Where has the time gone? Card

~Cricut Expression
~Cricut Cartridges - George, Art Philosophy
~Tim Holtz Lost and Found paper stack
~Tim Holtz Coredinations Kraft-Core Nostalgia Collection
~Kelly Pannaci stamps
~Memento Ink
~Cat Eye Chalk Ink
~Brad
~Janome Sew MiniBrads
~Cat Eye Ink
I think I should have left off the "but" on the inside sentiment and I know I can go back and edit and reprint if I want later on but for now it will just have to do.
I used my Janome Sew Mini to add the stitching around the edge of the card. Before sewing I stamped the sentiment on the strip and then used removable adhesive to place the sentiment strip on the front of the card before sewing.
In the close up you can see a little bit of how the Coredinations Tim Holtz Kraft-Core distresses so well. I like the kraft color and think it adds a little more distressed look than the regular Coredinations cardstock.
I have to point out what I thought was pretty ingenious of me with this card...the large mat of the card is done with calendar patterned paper and then the inset mat is done with map printed paper. I thought these went well with the sentiment *okie waits for the applause and then bows graciously*. Yes I know, I do have a good idea every now and then!! *okie starts laughing and starts having a coughing fit* Guess that will teach me to toot my own horn!
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Time Flies card
Consumer Crafts was nice enough to send me the new pack of Coredinations Tim Holtz Kraft-Core Nostalgia Collection to try out. When I saw the cardstock I knew I wanted to try out the clock themed stamps I got at CKC in Houston. My friend Linda, aka LGuild, and I have looked at clock stamps and we were too cheap to buy any that we had seen. When I saw these and they were only $3 for the set I had to get them, and of course get a set for Linda as well! The stamps are Kelly Panacci clear stamps and I am not sure where you might be able to find them now as they are copyrighted in 2008.
This is the first card I made from the set.
Supplies Used:
~Cricut Expression
~Cricut Cartridges - George, Art Philosophy
~Tim Holtz Lost and Found paper stack
~Coredinations Tim Holtz Kraft-Core Nostalgia Collection
~Kelly Pannaci stamps
~Memento Ink
~Stampin Up background stamp
~Stampin Up border Punch
~Brads
~Cat Eye Ink
While the colors are more feminine I thought it could be used as a card for a man as well. While making this card I actually was thinking of how fast time passed while I was in Houston visiting with my friend Carmen and was thinking this would be a great little card to send someone after staying at their house. I did the sentiment on MS word.

Monday, September 19, 2011
ON HOLD
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Naughty Girls - I want my man
Supplies Used:
Cricut Expressions
Cricut carts - Forever Young, Love You A Latte, Reminisce Accents
Patterned Paper - Jennie Bowlin, Flair Designs
Various cardstock
Cateye Chalk Ink
Stampin Up marker
Cri-Kits
Brads
MS Word

Not sure you can tell, you might need to click the picture to see it better, but I used a Versmark pad to stamp the cream colored cardstock with a swirly design. I think it would have looked better if I had used some embossing powder and heat embossed it...oh well, live and learn!
For the "latte" on the cup I used the Cri-Kits because I knew I wouldn't be able to get a clean cut that small. I think it turned out pretty good this way.
I would like to thank everyone for the wonderful response on this series. It has taught me that there are a lot more warped minds out there than I though *okie cracks up laughing* and it also teaches me that maybe I need to make more of the odd sense of humor cards that I have floating around in my head!! Oh and for you faithful readers of mine stay tuned for a little surprise!!
Friday, September 16, 2011
Naughty Girls - I NEED YOUR

Cricut carts - Forever Young, Everyday Paperdolls, Feeling Groovy
Patterned Paper - Scenic Route
Various cardstock
Cateye Chalk Ink
Stampin Up marker
Signo UM 153 gel pen
Brads
Stickles
Cri-Kits

The medical equipment is all from Everyday Paperdolls. I used Design Studio to adjust the items to the sizes I needed. It is hard to tell that the nurse hat has a little red cross on it since it looks like a diamond but I guess it will have to work. At least the cross on the medical bag cut a little better.
The gal did have a dress on and I started to cut out the dress and put it on her but then I thought it went against the whole design of the other cards so I just cut that sucker off of her.
I will be at a conference for work all day today so I might not have time to approve comments throughout the day but I will be reading them when I get back home.
The end of the series posts tomorrow and while I don't have the card completed at the time of writing this post I do think it is going to turn out good *at least okie hopes it does* and I might actually give one of those to someone! HA HA HA
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Naughty Girls - It Is My Nature

Cricut Expressions
Cricut carts - Forever Young, Botanicals, Everyday Paperdolls, George
Patterned Paper - Fancy Pants "All Fall"
Various cardstock
Cateye Chalk Ink
Stampin Up marker
Cri-Kits

I sanded the Coredinations cardstock before cutting out the leaves. I cut a enough so I could layer them and then give them some dimension by folding parts of the leaves up.
I always feel that adding extra dimension, along with a little doodling really makes a card much more interesting. I will admit that I get tired of doing all the doodling and inking but I just can't seem to NOT do it! I have tried, believe me I have tried *okie cringes at the sight of one of her cards not having inking or doodling* but I just can't do it!!
I would like to say thank you for all of you folks that have left comments. I have enjoyed reading them all and knowing you have enjoyed this series. And for that...well...I will let it be a surprise!
Tomorrow I will be posting ONE of my favorite cards and then on Saturday I will post the last of the series, it is also one of my favorites!! Ya know, the whole "save the best for last" type thing! *okie cracks up laughing*
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Naughty Girls - Wanna be my
Supplies Used:Cricut Expressions
Cricut carts - Forever Young, Paisley, Alphalicious
Patterned Paper - Scenic Route
Various cardstock
Cateye Chalk Ink
Stampin Up marker
Janome Sew-Mini
Sheer ribbon
Brads
Stickles
Cri-Kits
In case you are new to this gig, you can click on the pictures and they will open up bigger if you would like to see more detail.


I love the font Alphalicious and I guess it is an oldie but a goodie since it was one of the first cartridges I got almost 4 years ago.
Come on back tomorrow to see card number 4 of the series!!! I will be finishing out the series on Friday and Saturday *okie thinks she might take a vacation, or at least need one at that point*.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Naughty Girls - Hey Birdbrain
Supplies Used:Cricut Expressions
Cricut carts - Forever Young, 3 Birds on Parade, Songbird, Opposites Attract
Patterned Paper - Scenic Route
Various cardstock
Cateye Chalk Ink
Stampin Up marker
Brads
Cri-Kits
I am diggin using the Cri-Kits for the inside sentiments. It takes a little longer than if I would do it in Microsoft Word and print from the computer but then again it probably saves time since I don't have to keep searching for a matching font. I am also liking the inside of the card decorated a little more. I figure if I am going to go to all the trouble to make this set I might as well make it look good!! *okie cracks up laughin*
I sanded the pink paper before cutting out the feather fan and then after cutting I added a little ink to the edges and then after putting the two cuts together I curled the feathers up a little for some dimension.
I do have the cards done for Wednesday and Thursday. I still have to finish up the ones for Friday and Saturday and I certainly hope I have time to get them completed and posted on time!!
I would like to thank everyone for the fabulous response I got on the first card in the series! I hope the rest do not disappoint!!
Monday, September 12, 2011
Naughty Girl - I've got...

Cricut Expressions
Cricut carts - Forever Young, Art Philosophy, Billionaire,
Patterned Paper - Basic Grey, Luxe
Various cardstock
Cateye Chalk Ink
Stampin Up marker
Brads
Viva Pearl Pen
Cricut Markers
Cri-Kits
For the sentiment on the inside of the card I used the Cri-Kits because I wanted the font to match the front of the card. In case you don't understand the sentiment just read it outloud and see how it sounds. NOW YA GET IT??? *okie cracks up laughin*

I think I could have made the heart a little smaller but I was trying to make it look like she was holding it to cover up her nakedness. I really don't like my paper choices too well for this card but it's too late to change it now since I already made 6 of them.
Anywho tomorrow will be another Naughty girl!!
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Naughty Girl Card Series Coming Soon!
I have the cards all designed in DS and working on them. I am trying to save them as Gypsy files as well but I am having problems with some of them not wanting to save. Not sure what that is all about but I will keep trying.
Here is a little sneak peek of the card that will

Oh the series will be Naughty Girls so you are forewarned that if you are the type to get offended by risque things then ya probably should duck out next week and not come by! *okie cracks up laughing*. Okay I am laughing, but I am VERY SERIOUS! I would like to avoid some of the hate mail and messages I received during the Naughty Princess series because some folks felt like I desecrated the Disney Princess's.
I will be working today on trying to finish all the cards, wish me luck since I cut 6 of each of the 6 designs! Ya know I don't believe in making just one of a card! Even if I don't get them all done I will be posting the first one tomorrow.
Friday, September 9, 2011
Celebrate Cupcake - Art Philosophy

Cricut Expressions
Cricut cartridge - CTMH Art Philosophy
CTMH - Art Philosophy coordinating stamp set
Karen Foster - Celebrate
Coredinations cardstock
Cuttlebug - Swiss Dots
brads
ProMarkers
Memento Ink - stamping image
Cat Eye Chalk ink

The cupcake wrapper was colored with Crimson and Burgundy Promarkers. The icing was colored with Cocoa and Cinnamon Promarkers. I think I would have liked it better if I had cut an extra one and then done the icing to pop dot it. Maybe I will do that next time! *okie hates it when she has a good idea after seeing a picture she is posting*

For the tag I stamped the scroll design with Stampin Up ink *okie wonders if it is a sin to mix CTMH and SU products and decides she hopes it is since she needs a little sin in her life from time to time* and then used Memento to stamp the Celebrate on the tag.
If you would like to download the .cut file for use with Design Studio please click here - CELEBRATE CUPCAKE
If you would like to download the gypsy file for use with the Gypsy please click here - CELEBRATE CUPCAKE
If you would like to order this bundle please contact Melanie Brown at her CTMH WEBSITE.
Thursday, September 8, 2011
U and Me Forever - Art Philosophy

Cricut Expressions
Cricut cartridge - CTMH Art Philosophy
CTMH - Art Philosophy coordinating stamp set
Basic Grey - Origins line
Coredination's Cardstock
Janome Sew Mini
Memento Ink - stamping image
Cat Eye Chalk ink
I left the inside blank so something to the user's choice can be used. I did add a little strip at the bottom for some extra decoration.

If you will click the picture and look closely at the leaves you will see where I added drops of Glossy Dimensions to make little "dew" drops. Not sure how good they look in the picture but in person they are pretty cool.

The fact that the size of cut you need to make is listed next to the coordinating stamp is AWESOME!!! It makes it so easy. And with the stamps being clear I didn't even need to use a Stamp A Ma Jig to line it up!
If you would like to download the .cut file for use with Design Studio please click here - U AND ME FOREVER CARD
If you would like to download the gypsy file for use with the Gypsy please click here - U AND ME FOREVER CARD
Each file is set to cut images for making 4 cards at a time.
If you would like to order this bundle please contact Melanie Brown at her CTMH WEBSITE.
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
A Shout Out for Lisa from Stampout Online
But let me tell you about Lisa from Stampout Online...Lisa and I became acquainted online because I ordered a "handmade by" stamp from her, you may recognize it from my photos I post as I use it as a watermark. I quickly learned that Lisa is a great person to order from as she makes sure your order is how you want it before she processes the order. Robin fell in love with the handmade stamp I had and ordered, well let's just say several, handmade by stamps from Lisa's site. I emailed Lisa to ask if she would be willing to take Paypal donations so maybe we could help replace some of the stamps Robin lost. Lisa was extremely generous and replied:
Oh no!!! Would you have any idea which ones or what types? Would they be Unmounted? Send me any info you have and her address and I'll see what I can put together for you/her....you can focus your funds in another direction as I would just be happy to help out. So sad :(
~Lisa
I was able to pull the picture of the stamps off Robins facebook page she had posted for me to see and email that to Lisa so she could see if she had those available. Lisa soon emailed me back and let me know she had all of the images Robin had ordered would be sending out replacements!!
Let me tell ya guys, I don't think many online retailers would be as sympathetic and generous as Lisa is being! I also am not sure if Lisa realizes how much her generous gift will help lift Robin's spirits in this difficult time. What I can tell you is that I am so grateful to be included in such a fabulous bunch of people as I find papercrafters tend to be!!!
I do have a request at this time. If you are planning on getting an address stamp, handmade by stamp, etc please check out Stampout Online and show Lisa the support she is showing our dear Robin during her difficult time.
Remember When Card - Art Philosophy

Cricut Expressions
Cricut cartridge - CTMH Art Philosophy
CTMH - Art Philosophy coordinating stamp set
Basic Grey - Boxer line
Heat set studs
Memento Ink - stamping image
Signo UM-153 white gel pen
Cat Eye Chalk ink
Microsoft Word - inside sentiment

I added gold heat set studs to the points of the starburst after I got the card done because it seemed like it needed a little something else and I think they added that little touch of something else.
The stitching around the insets also seemed to add to the design enough to help it look a little more embellished.

If you would like to download the .cut file for use with Design Studio please click here - REMEMBER WHEN CARD
If you would like to download the gypsy file for use with the Gypsy please click here - REMEMBER WHEN CARD
Each file is set to cut images for making 4 cards at a time.
If you would like to order this bundle please contact Melanie Brown at her CTMH WEBSITE.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Congratulations Key Card - Art Philosophy
- Cricut Cartridge
- Matching Stamps
- Matching Chipboard
- Wide Variety of images
- Fantastic font
Here is the first card I made with the Art Philosophy bundle. A man I know is leaving his current position and starting a new job soon and when I saw this stamp in the set I knew I had to use it to make a card for him.

Cricut Expressions
Cricut cartridge - CTMH Art Philosophy
CTMH - Art Philosophy coordinating stamp set
Basic Grey - Boxer line
Metallic Cardstock
Embroidery thread
Brad
Memento Ink - stamping image
Cat Eye Chalk ink
Microsoft Word - inside sentiment
Huh I just noticed I made a typo on the inside sentiment...It should say "MAY YOU HOLD THE KEY TO YOUR HAPPINESS". Good thing it will be easy enough to change! *okie shakes her head at her own stupidity*.


Now I bet you might be wondering how I knew what size to cut the image..well let me show you!!

If you would like to download the .cut file for use with Design Studio please click here > CONGRATS KEY CARD DS <
If you would like to download the gypsy file for use with the Gypsy please click here > CONGRATS KEY CARD GYP<
If you would like to order this bundle please contact Melanie Brown at her CTMH WEBSITE.
Monday, September 5, 2011
I'M BACK!! Art Philosophy review....
The weather cooled down this weekend and I was able to get in my craft room last night. I designed 4 cards using the Close To My Heart - Art Philosophy bundle and was able to get two of them completed. Okay ya'll know how I roll....so it was actually 8 cards, 4 of each design. I am going to try and get the other two designs completed today and get posts ready for the rest of the week of the projects.
I was asked by Melanie, whom you may know from COURTNEY LANE DESIGNS and

The fabulous thing is that the bundle comes with stamps and chipboard shapes that match some of the cuts on the cartridge and the guess work is taken out for you because the sizes you need to cut are printed on the packaging! I will post more about that later, hmm, or make a video just so you guys can see how cool it is!!
If you would like to order this bundle you can visit Melanie's CTMH website, MELANIEBROWNMYCTMH and order from there. There is a great promotion going on for the month of September if you order this bundle before the end of the month. Check out Melanie's post HERE to read more about the great promotion along with seeing a super cute card she made using the bundle.
Anywho, I wanted to let you guys know that I am gonna be back to crafting and there should be posts each day this week of the cards I am making with the Art Philosophy bundle. Oh and never fear I will be posting links to download the projects in Design Studio format and the Gypsy format!!
Saturday, September 3, 2011
THE NEXT CRICUT CRUISE!
Here is a list of the prizes for the promotion!!
GRAND PRIZES: A total of thirteen Grand Prizes will be awarded (one to each winner), grouped into the following categories:
Grand Prize No. 1 (seven prizes): Caribbean cruise for two, round-trip coach air transportation for two from a major airport near winner's residence (as determined by Sponsor) to Houston, Texas, pre-cruise hotel accommodation for 1 night (one standard room, double occupancy), Ground transfers to/from airport and hotel and cruise departure location, inside stateroom with a maximum of two persons aboard the Mariner of the Seas cruise ship for seven (7) nights; All shipboard meals for winner and travel companion; Government taxes and fees (as defined in the Royal Caribbean brochure) for winner and travel companion. Winner's guest must be 18 years of age or older, unless the winner is the parent/legal guardian of the guest. (ARV: $4,600). For the seven Grand Prize No. 1 trip prizes, one prize will be allocated to entrants at each of the Hobby Lobby, Michaels, AC Moore, JoAnn and HSN microsites within cricut.com. See Rule 1 for microsite URLs. An additional two Grand Prize No. 1 trip prizes will be randomly seeded among all of the participating Websites.
Grand Prize No. 2 (three prizes): Cartridge Pack (includes 100 Cricut® cartridges) (ARV: $6,000);
Grand Prize No. 3 (three prizes): Craft Room Makeover, awarded in the form of crafting tools and storage solutions, valued at $5,000. An expert chosen by Sponsor will visit winner's home to determine what crafting tools and storage solutions would be appropriate. HOWEVER, in the event a Grand Prize No. 3 winner resides in Canada or the Great Britain, winner will receive a check in the amount of $5,000 instead. (ARV: $5,000).
For those who don't win you will be able to still go on the Cricut Cruise by purchasing your own ticket through ProvoCraft. I have heard that there will be payment options for the tickets on the cruise. I believe the way the classes are done is going to be a little different this year and you will purchase admission to which class or classes you want to take. I will post more information when I find out for sure.
I sure don't figure I have a chance in hades of winning again but I am going to be on that cruise one way or another. My BFF Karen and I had such a great time last year that we have made a pact to go again!
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Cuttlebug Storage Revisited - CUT FILES
Long ago before there were 62,000 images of cupcakes, flowers, food items, etc *okie thinks she might be exaggerating just a little* I made .cut files using Design Studio and George so that many others could cut images that just weren't available at the time. Now, 3-4 years later there isn't much need for me to design images but every now and then someone comes along and sends me a message about a .cut file I made long ago and it makes me feel good to know they are still getting used.
Recently I got a few messages from readers about how they were unable to download my .cut files from my blog. I emailed them the files and figured it was a glitch. As my regular readers know, I found out that every file I have ever linked to my blog was lost. So now here I sit feeling overwhelmed about which files to reload and relink or should I just go delink them all and let it go. Of course I am sure I will get back around to relinking all the files it is just going to take me awhile.
But for today *okie thinks it sure took her a long time to get to the point of the post today* I have relinked the Cuttlebug Storage Folders. There has been some recent interest in the system since I posted my storage system for the Cricut Carts.
I originally made the folders for the A2 folders back in 2009 and quite a few people

Please see the original post - CUTTLEBUG A2 STORAGE FOLDERS, for the instructions and .cut file you can download.
I have relinked the .cut file so you should have no problems downloading the file now.
I had a few people who just kept hounding me about wanting storage folders

Please see the original post - CUTTLEBUG 5X7 FOLDERS STORAGE, for instructions and .cut file you can download.
Friday, August 26, 2011
BREAKING NEWS! Sale on Coredinations!!
Here is the link...
COREDINATIONS SALE AT CONSUMER CRAFTS
I am going to have to craft soon!
One thing about product reviews that I enjoy is using them and then giving my HONEST opinion about the product or retailer. I am excited about this product. It is not a great new product but an addition to something I already own. But it is a little different because of the extra elements that can be used with the product *okie so loves being secretive*. I will tell you guys that I have reviewed products in the past that I didn't like and I would give the retailer, owner, etc the option of me not reviewing the product on my blog, so if I say I like something and use it then you know I AM GIVING THE GOD'S HONEST TRUTH about my feelings on the products I do say I like and use!
I will say the product is Cricut related and that is all I am saying for now!! *okie smiles a devilishly bright grin and knowing folks are so confused about what she is saying*
Thursday, August 25, 2011
All files are lost...NEW DOWNLOAD PROCEDURE
I thought I should let you guys know that all the .cut files that have been on my blog over the last few years are no longer downloadable due to me not having access to the online storage I was using. Luckily I do have all my .cut files backed up on an external hard drive *okie hopes she does anyway* and will be trying to store and link them again. This procedure may take some time and I actually thought about not doing it since I never know if people use them or not.
BUT...for now I am trying another method of storing the files and having them available for download. I think there might have been some confusion about how to download the file for the Cricut Cart Box and I thought I would post a picture of a screen shot explaining how to download the files.
To download just click where it says "DOWNLOAD".
With this system I also get to put a descriptor, which I think will be handy, and will include name(s) of cart(s) used and if it is a Gypsy or Design Studio file.
Hope this helps clear up any confusion.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Cricut Cart Box - Gypsy file
AND IT DID!!
I hope you guys are able to download this file. I am still not sure this method is working for my files to be downloaded as no one has let me know yet. So someone please let me know if you are able to download and use the file.
Here is the file ---> CRICUT CART BOX 6 CUT
Here is a picture showing the fold lines.

Since I did this on my Gypsy I was unable to make the score lines. You will need to score, or you can just fold if you wish, 3/8" away from the outside edge of the larger flaps. This is indicated by the red dash lines in the picture. The flap then can either tucked inside on the back or flapped around the back of the tall part of the box.
Be sure to decide which you want to do before applying your adhesive so you don't tape the wrong side of the flaps.
Okay I hope you guys can use this sucker! I really like my carts done this way!
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Cricut Cartridge Storage - VIDEO
The little boxes in that I keep my carts in are made from a .cut file I made years ago. The file uses George and cuts 3 at a time. I had another file that cut more but I am unable to find it right now. Here is the file for the one I have...CRICUT CARTRIDGE BOX and hopefully you guys can download this. I am trying Google Docs to store the file and not sure if it will work.
Here is the video....
If you are unable to get to a Staples or find the Really Useful Boxes they can be ordered online at REALLY USEFUL PRODUCTS. I would like to thank Kymberlee of The Paper Midwife for sharing this information with me!
So you don't have to go searching for the handbook video I am re-posting it now in case you want to see more details on the handbook storage and missed it before.
UPDATE: I have been asked to post how many handbooks the 9L containers hold and it really depends on the handbooks you are using. I would say you can fit approximately 30-40 handbooks to a box, it depends on if it is a full content, lite or solutions handbook.
Was Gonna Have a Video!
Also for those of you who have tried to download the Cricut Cart Box .cut file and haven't been able to do so I apologize. I am not sure what is wrong with the file download system but will check that out as well. If you are wanting it now please email me and I can email you the file. The file I have available easily for me to send is with George. I will see if I can get the one using Plantin loaded to my new computer as well.
So hang in there and I will have a video soon!
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Donate to help a family in need....
Proceeds from any size SCENTSY order will be matched and all orders will be entered to win one of two $25 gift certificates.
She is also doing a donation option of where for every $5 you donate you can earn one entry to win an Imagine, so $5 gets you one entry, $10 gets you two entries, etc.
If you would like to see more details on how to donate please go to THE PAPER MIDWIFE.
Friday, August 19, 2011
School starts Monday!
Linda brought my carts down to me last night and we went to the casino

Maybe the salt water from the pool will make it heal faster!
I have been asked why I haven't been on the messageboard recently. There are actually a few reasons...Number One: I haven't felt like crafting; Number Two: I have been busy with other things *okie wonders if most people know they can usually find her on Facebook* and hanging out with friends this summer; Number Three: The messageboard is running slow for me and that gets on my last dang nerve; and Number Four: SECURITY CODE TO POST!!! Which I find utterly ridiculous, but since it isn't my board I guess I can't do anything about that one.
Let's see on my last post I told you guys about my daughter wrecking her car and she is driving my little Metro. Well not long after that, just like 3 days I think, she got fired from her job. She wasn't ever given any official write ups and the new manager had hired her friend in the place of my daughter. Luckily my daughter only went about a week without a job and is now working in a daycare and is excited to have weekends off. She started working when she was about 15 1/2 and she hasn't had weekends off very often. I just hope she likes it. She is now also considering going to nursing school but is taking a break for a bit to figure out what she wants to do. I can't say much since I did the same thing, a few times, when I was a little older than her.
I spent time in the pool yesterday and think I am going to head back out there today.

SPEAKIN OF THE DEVIL! The fedex truck just showed up! Off to put rewards points in!!
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Design Studio still opens! And deal on baby bug!
Things are calming down around here a little bit. Although I am learning that when you want to teach someone a lesson about something it sometimes comes back and blows up in a totally different direction. Hard to explain right now and not sure I will but just a little lesson I am learning and think I should write down somewhere for future reference! Just think MEN! HA HA HA
Oh for those who might be looking for a baby bug Hallmark Scrapbook had a deal where if you bought George for 39.99 and like $9 shipping you got a refurbished baby bug for free and the machine carries the same warranty as a new machine. So guess it is covered for a year. Here is the link of you are interested... BUY GEORGE GET A FREE CRICUT.
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Sunday is the start of a new week
I was able to finally get my Metro to AutoZone and it was a bad battery. Yep the brand new battery was bad! It is starting and running fine now. My daughter is now driving it, which has no AC, but I think she is just grateful that Mom isn't having to take her everywhere. I am glad as well! I remember when she got her first car and how nice it was not having to stop whatever I was doing to take her here and there and boy was there a lot of here and there's back then!
I had a fabulous time Friday night with my friend Tracy and Lisa. We had some wonderful ribeye steaks, baked potatoes, and Lisa fixed some corn and green beans and crescent rolls. I had made two Dream Pies, one chocolate and one coconut cream. We sat around and visited, drank a few beers and swam in the pool. I hadn't seen Tracy in years even though I have known him for about 25 years so it was nice to catch up with him. Good friends and relaxation does a lot to sooth the stressed out soul.
Last night my friend Lisa and I went to the Casino and hung out and had a blast. Of course anytime I am with Lisa I have a blast. Well not just Lisa but any of my friends! My friends are very important to me and I love them so much. I often call them just to say "I love you". Having lost both of my parents very suddenly and being lucky enough to know the last thing we ever said to each other was "I love you" I have realized how much it means to be able to say that and know they other person knew. So now I make sure I tell my family and friends I love them so they never have to wonder if I did.
I actually thought about some layouts I would like to do but when I went in the craftroom I walked back out. I think it was about 85 or so in there and I knew I wouldn't be able to sit and craft. But at least maybe the inspiration is starting to come back to me. I know once it starts to cool down I will be back in the mood to craft. I might even open up DS later and work on designing a vinyl project for my bathroom later. My friend Linda, aka LGuild, picked up Splish Splash for me when it was on clearance at her Walmart and I have been wanting to do something with it for the bathroom.
I do want to share one thing I thought of the other day. So after my daughter wrecked her car and I had to take her to work and pick her up from work later that night I knew I needed to get the Metro to AutoZone and have the battery checked. Once we got it checked and they replaced it *okie so loves warranties* and it was starting and running I immediately thought "GOD TRULY BLESSES ME". Now some people might think "well crap I bought a new car and didn't need to". But instead I saw it all as a blessing! Had my Metro not had the new bad battery I would have kept it and not had the Sedona now. That would mean that my daughter and I would be sharing a car until she could get hers fixed. But instead God provided the opportunity for me to get a nice vehicle and have the Metro available for when she would need it. THANK YOU LORD FOR WATCHING OUT FOR ME AND MINE!
Even if I do allow myself to think negative for a short period of time I am a true believer that positive thinking and attitude can overcome just about anything. I always tell my clients "there is no such thing as a negative experience as long as you learn something from it and there is always something to be learned from any situation". I honestly believe this and practice it in my own life. I hate self pity so I only allow myself very BRIEF periods of such nastiness and then I start thinking about how lucky I truly am and then it seems things always start to turn around for the better!
Well it is time to get some paperwork done but wanted to let ya'll know that things are better around here. Thank you everyone for the great comments and emails. It has been very comforting to know that other people go through a lot of the same chit! And of course I do know I am still very blessed in life.
Friday, August 5, 2011
And then there is more stress....BRING IT ON!
So of course the 3 car pile up is the fault of my daughter who is on my insurance. I was so relieved that she was okay until she started talking hateful to me. My friend Linda got an ear full while I vented my frustrations and feelings about being treated like chit every time my daughter does something wrong and it some how becomes my fault.
Everything has calmed down now and we are trying to figure out what to do about the car situation and right now I am shaking my fists at stress and saying "BRING IT ON BITCH!! JUST BRING IT ON BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT GONNA GET ME DOWN!!"
Tonight I am having a few friends over for a cookout and swimming. I think a few cold beers are in order and maybe I can relax and just enjoy myself for a little while. Saturday I plan on getting some paper work done and then Sunday spending the day out of town with a friend. Yep...I deserve a little rest and relaxation and by golly I am going to take it and enjoy it!!
Thursday, August 4, 2011
How ex's can be so stressful!
Anywho, he was living with us for about a year and I put him out last August due to some issues. Oh hell, he was getting drunk all the time, staying out late and just being a poopie head! There I said it! Well one weekend where I heard nothing from him and he didn't come home I decided enough was enough and that I was done. When he did come in we had a few words and I told him "it's time for you to go". Long story short, he left. We remained in contact, me being the optimistic person and thinking that maybe my daughter could build a relationship with her father, over the past year even though he was going down hill fast. After being arrested several times he finally got the final blow over 4th of July weekend and got picked up for a DUI, his second in 2 years. Matter of fact COPS was in town that weekend filming so he might actually end up a tv star of sorts...the bad sorts! *okie can't help but laugh at the twisted humor in that statement* Well on top of that he had several other arrests for some issues and he is now sitting in county with a $500,000 bond on him. Now why this would be stressful to me is really hard to understand. I don't want him in my life anymore than a friend. But that's just it, we have been able to remain friends and since he is a friend I worry. But at least I know as long as he is in there he isn't killing himself or someone else with his actions. I do worry about my daughter and how this will effect her. Of course she tells me she doesn't care, but I know it has to bother her in some capacity. I have no idea how long he will be gone, but I know it will be a number of years.
I just wonder what goes through someone's mind who keeps making the same mistakes over and over and over again and some how thinks the results will be different. In the world of counseling, we call that crazy. He is an addict and I hope now he can get the help he needs. But I feel if he got out today he would be right back out doing the same kinda stuff all over again. I have no bad thoughts or feelings for him. Actually I always have wished happiness for any of my ex's. Well at least after a while of being away from there. I think there might have been one that I felt my wishes were less than gracious, but that's a whole notha story!!
I don't blame myself for any of his actions because I know all that he did was by his own choice and he has to face the consequences. I just wish my daughter could have had a father that would have been loving and supportive. In this I feel I have let her down....yep that is probably where the stress comes in over the whole situation.
On a brighter note, tonight is Stamp Club and Linda will be coming to town. We are going to go find somewhere cheap to eat and then head off to spend some time with our stamping friends. Maybe I can get a card done or something but I am making no promises!!!
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Self Therapy update...
I would like to thank everyone for the supportive comments and emails I received about yesterdays post. Because of that I have decided that ya know what, this is my blog and it is Scrap N' MORE so you guys might be getting the more part now since I have decided to take my thoughts from MSword to my blog. I figure what the heck, some of ya'll feel like you really know me so ya might as well know a little more about me. And besides, I am usually a pretty open book about things in my life anyway. And if ya don't want to read it, then just don't be clickin on my blog *okie laughs her little smart aleck laugh and gives a wink*
I will share one issue...my daughter has officially flunked out of college. This has been a huge blow to me because I wanted so much more for her. *okie does the sshhh motion with her finger on her lips and speaks quietly* Don't ya'll tell her this, but I have to realize that I did the same thing when I was in college. I was a big party animal and then one morning at the age of 24 I woke up and magically said "it's time to grow up and be an adult" and that is what I did. I went back and finished my bachelors degree, after changing my major about six different times, and then went on to complete my masters degree and then get my licensed professional counselor certification. I know there is hope for her yet. I just wanted her to make better decisions than I did. LIVE AND LEARN! Maybe it will make her a stronger person, at least that is my hope. I have to thank my friend Linda for listening to me cry and helping me get my mind a little more straight about this situation. I know I talk bad about Linda on here *okie thinks, because Linda can be meaner than heck sometimes* but she truly is one of my best friends, even if she does tell me all the time when we are in the car and she pulls out in traffic "oh well, it will hit your side first and you are fluffy enough to cushion me".
It amazes me some days in my life when I think about what my worst fears have been and then they come and slap me in the face. My daughter's problems with college is one of them. I remember my dad telling me when I started college "Finish your education. Everything in this world can be taken from you, your house, your family, your money, your freedom. Everything. But the ONE thing that can never be taken from you is your education". My dad died during my first semester of college but his words stuck with me. Even during the times when I had flunked out or decided to sit out I always knew I would go back and finish, but when I was ready. I think my dad would be proud that I went as far with my education that I did.
The hard part I am dealing with is that I made her a deal. I told her as long as she was in school I would pay her car insurance and cell phone bill. Well she isn't going to be in school anymore so that means I have to toughen up and now charge her for those things or let her get her own. I know it will be hard on her and I don't want her to suffer like I did when I was younger. But I do know it made me the person I am today...strong, independent, determined, etc etc *okie thinks she will leave out the crazier than a bedbug adjective* and maybe it will help build her character as well. She even mentioned last night on the phone "Mom you have your life and I have mine". I told her "Ya know what you are right, that is correct. You do have your life and I have my life". I think it scared her and she said "that's not what I meant, don't take it that way". And I told her "but it is true, and it's time you lived your life". I think she might have gotten the hint that the purse strings were going to be pulled tight when I said that because the sound in her voice was one of trepidation.
Okay enough of that for now...it's time for chocolate! HA HA HA Just kidding.
Oh I do want to share with you guys that I have lost 26lbs this summer. I weighed on the last day of school which was May 20th and, *okie looks around and shakes her head* HELL NO I AM NOT GOING TO TELL YOU WHAT I WEIGHED!! Geez Louise! It's just been too hot to cook or eat so I only eat what I feel like I can stand to ingest. I was worried about it but the doctor said I am fine and it is just because I have changed eating habits. I hope I can keep it up, er is that down, and lose some more weight. I know it would be good for my health and my diabetes *okie still swears that doctor is lying and she doesn't have diabetes*. With the heat being the way it is it might be a few more months before my electronic cooking devices in my kitchen get turned on again!
That is all for now, I got some things to get done around here, but not crafting. Sorry about that folks. I hope to craft some day soon.
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
I am alive
As far as being okay, well I will be but right now I just need some time to get my head on straight. There have been some things going on in my life and right now I am having to do some self therapy to over come these issues. I know it will take a little while and I know I will be okay, I always am. And one day I hope to be able to craft again.
To be honest crafting has always been one of my therapies and maybe that is part of my problem right now...I can't craft. It's just not the lack of motivation to do anything but it is also too hot to sit in the craft room and do anything. The craft room use to be a garage and I don't think it is insulated to well and it just isn't staying cool enough to craft. Matter of fact it is not the least bit cool. My friend Carmen from Houston can attest to that for me right now. She came through to get her dog that I kept for them for a week and she even said it was too hot in there to sit and try and do anything.
I actually thought about shutting down my blog until I am ready to craft again and then I figured what the heck...just leave it be for now.
I want to thank all of those who have voiced concerns. It really does mean a lot to me. I have gotten emails in the past where people have told me that they feel like they know me personally because of my writing style on my blog and also because I am *okie thinks crazy* open about my life and post many other things that go on besides just crafting. Not sure if I ever told you guys this but long ago I was a journalism major and an English major and although I don't write properly like I was taught *okie knows she sure wasn't ever taught to write her thoughts in italics* I still enjoy writing, er...typing, crap out. I am doing a lot of writing, or typing as the case may be, right now but nothing that would be needed to post on my blog. You guys would be screaming TMI TMI TMI!! *okie grins a little knowing it would happen*.
So just know that I do appreciate your concerns and I will be back to my old self in time.